You Just Got Scammed – Now What?
You’ve been scammed and you’re so angry that steam is rising from your head. While trying to buy that shiny, new “make money online” program, the scammers got you!
You’ve been “Got”.
Sweet Cyber Daddy just pimp-slapped your wallet and you’ve been violated three ways to Sunday. He pissed on your leg and told you it was raining…and you believed him!
If you have just fallen for a scam, or been scammed in the past, I’m going to try to ease your pain a little.
Don’t feel too embarrassed. It can happen to anyone. It has happened to me on a few occasions, so I can speak with authority here. The most important thing you can do here is take full responsibility for your mistake. Just own it. You made a bad decision.
Anger is a normal reaction when you realize your wallet just got pimp-slapped. When I got “Got” by scammers at the tune of a couple hundred of dollars, I was really angry – more so at myself! I thought “How could I’ve been so gullible? Couldn’t I see this for what it is?”
Scammers are constantly refining their scams to make them as effective as possible. They know what works and what doesn’t. These “scammers” are some of the vilest characters inhabiting cyberspace.
The purpose of this post is to discuss the hard facts that lead people to catch Shiny Object Syndrome – the “disease” that causes people to get scammed.
Why People Get Scammed
There’s one primary reason why people get scammed when they are trying to make money online.
They contract Shiny Object Syndrome. Shiny Object Syndrome is the tendency to chase “something new” — be it a new business idea, tool, or goal — rather than to stay focused on one primary goal.
Not having clarity about your online business is the main way to catch Shiny Object Syndrome.
Shiny Object Syndrome comes from a unrealistic view of the internet as a magical place to make lots of money in a short period of time without a lot of hard work. People with this mindset usually are attracted to the following false promises:
“Make $3,000 in 30 days or your money back”
“Follow my system and rake in $10K in 90 days.”
“Set it and forget it – Make money while you sleep with my Done-For-You system!”
“Set up your new mini-site in just 30 minutes and start making money ASAP!”
“My No-cost business will make you $500 a week…”
“Quit your job in 60 days by following my Wealth Formula.”
“Make your computer your own personal ATM – Make $200 daily with just 1 hour of work a day!
“Look at how I made $10K by just sending ONE email to my list!”
“Build your 6-figure online business quickly and quit your job with just 5 hours of work per week!”
“Use this ONE secret method I uncovered that helped me gain 20,000 visitors in ONE week!”
“Earning $30K in 90 days! Look how I earn money while touring the great cities of Europe”
“Just Plug-In to my can’t fail system and start making money online in less than 30 days.”
That’s right – all of the above and anything similar to them are SHINY OBJECTS!
This is smilar to a child who is attracted to anything that’s shiny, glittery and new, moves around or makes a sound. Young children are constantly attracted to any “shiny object” that captures their attention.
As a child approaches a new object that he’s never seen, he’s intrigued and curious at first, but his interest quickly fades as the item loses its glitz appeal.
But wait a minute!..He’s then attracted to the next new shiny thing, only to lose interest and seek the next new shiny object!
You’ve Been “Got”
You know that you have the symptoms of shiny object syndrome – a.k.a. “you’ve been GOT” – if you belong to the following:
· You have a list of business ideas but nothing gets executed.
· You’re always starting new goals but never see them through to the finish.
· Moving around from one internet course to another – allowing yourself to be enticed by the outlandish claims of each course.
· You have a bad habit of jumping from one goal to the next rather than sticking with what you’re doing and seeing it through to the end.
· You keep registering new domain names and launching new websites, but you never finish the work on those websites and you have a ridiculous collection of unfinished projects.
· You have paid for a collection of tools, plugins and software that you rarely use – you bought then because you thought you might need them one day…
The Symptoms of Shiny Object Syndrome
At the heart of it, the issue with the shiny object syndrome is distraction and a total lack of discipline and focus. Being constantly drawn to new ideas and tools and abandoning important goal reaching tasks in the process.
When you’re constantly distracted and lack clarity, you never get things done; always on to something new, rather than completing your current plans. You give too much time and attention to useless noise and garbage on the internet, rather than building the fundamentals.
Since you never get good enough at something, you never reap the rewards true financial independence brings. You’re constantly chasing new things, and spending too much time wallowing in the basics and never becoming an expert in your niche or field.
What’s Really at the Root of the Problem
Trying to find a easy way out of hard work and many, many months of learning the right way to make money online is the root of the problem.
Earning money online comes as a result of years that you spend building your audience and a relationship with them. You learn how to solve other peoples problems and they pay you for it.
Building trust with your audience is very time-consuming and requires perseverance and more work than a person may be accustomed to.
People get scammed because they’re looking for a “easy way out”. They buy into someone’s lie that you can change your financial circumstances in 30-60-90 days.
They’re looking for that “magic bullet” when no such “magic bullet” exists.
Very few people want to roll up their sleeves and do the hard work necessary to build a sustainable online business.
If you’re not willing to put in the hard work for 1 to 2 years to reap a lifetime of reward, then this isn’t the business for you.
You read correctly – 1 to 2 years to build your website/blog to the point where it’s producing a meaningful income.
There Are No “Magic Bullets”
“Magic bullets”, which are so-called easy ways out of a difficult problem or supposed easy tickets to success, really don’t exist.
They never have!
At the end of the day you still need to put in the hard work and time to achieve your desired results. Until you do, change can never happen.
1 to 2 years is a generous time frame. It’s taken even longer for some to make it because of poor work ethic, failing to take responsibility for their mistakes, or extreme circumstances that had to be overcome.
Personal growth was never meant to be easy. It’s hard and frustrating at times. Cultivating the right mindset required to build an online business was not meant to be quick, as those lying scammers would have you believe.
It takes tremendous time and effort to establish a worthy goal and achieve success. You work on personal development day in and day out.
What the low-life scammers will never tell you is that it’s okay to be slow. It’s okay to take your time and figure things out the right way. It’okay to when you’re behind schedule and need to catch up.
Online scammers who are desperately trying to convince you to buy into their lie want you to subject yourself to obscene standards and pursue ridiculous claims at the expense of your valuable time, hard-earned money and necessary relationships.
Take your time.
Figure things out at your own pace.
Never become complacent about your business.
In conclusion, please understand this point:The sooner you stop looking for the so-called magic bullet to reach your goals, the faster you can be on your way to build a meaningful online business that will provide the life that you desire.
The elusive “magic bullet” of taking the easy way out does not exist – IT NEVER EXISTED FROM THE START!
Trust me…the fastest path to achieve your goals is to STOP looking for that “easy way out” and START WORKING toward building a meaningful online business.
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